In the realm of Toastmasters, the journey of personal growth often intertwines with the art of communication and the essence of leadership. Yet, it is rare to encounter someone who embodies these principles as profoundly as David Hopper did. As I reflect on my own path within Toastmasters, I feel compelled to share not only my journey but also the lasting impact that David had on countless members, including myself. 

David Hopper was more than just a former District 3 Director and President of the Pen to Podium Club; he was a guiding light for those who had the privilege of knowing him. His passing on May 18, 2025, from cancer left a tremendous void in our hearts, yet his legacy continues to inspire us every day. In my time as a Toastmaster, I have learned that the most valuable lessons often extend beyond the technical skills of public speaking and leadership; they are rooted in the values that define our character. David exemplified these values through his straightforward nature, unwavering dedication, and genuine kindness. 

From my very first meeting at the Pen to Podium Club, I felt an immediate sense of belonging, a feeling that can be attributed directly to David’s leadership. He had an extraordinary ability to create a welcoming environment where everyone felt at home and encouraged to step out of their comfort zones. I vividly recall my nervousness before delivering my first speech. As I stood at the podium, I looked into the audience and met David’s supportive smile. It was a reminder that I was not alone in my journey, providing me with the courage to express myself fully. 

One of David’s defining qualities was his belief in the power of honest communication. He taught us that vulnerability is not a weakness but rather a powerful tool for connection. Whether he was providing feedback or sharing his own experiences, David’s words were always sincere. He encouraged us to embrace our authentic selves and to speak our truths, reminding us that real connections resonate far more than polished performances. This emphasis on honesty has fundamentally shaped my approach to communication and serves as a guiding principle in all my interactions. 

David’s dedication to hard work and his commitment to our club were evident in every aspect of his involvement. He poured his heart and soul into ensuring that every member had the resources and support needed to thrive. His tireless efforts to cultivate an environment where we could all flourish were contagious. David inspired us to put in the effort required to improve our skills, demonstrating that growth is a collaborative endeavor. His example motivated us to practice, learn, and support one another, reinforcing the notion that we are all in this together. 

Moreover, David embodied the principles of honor and respect in all his interactions. He treated everyone with dignity, regardless of their experience or background. I witnessed his attentive listening, his encouraging words, and his ability to uplift those around him. Through his actions, David demonstrated that true leadership is not about authority but about serving others with grace and humility. His unwavering integrity served as a model for us all, reminding us that the way we treat others reflects our character. 

Perhaps most importantly, David exemplified kindness. I can recall various moments when he went out of his way to support fellow members, whether it was offering words of encouragement before a speech or simply checking in to see how someone was doing. His kindness created a ripple effect within our club, fostering a culture of support and camaraderie. David reminded us that small acts of kindness can make a significant difference in someone’s journey. 

As I navigated the Visionary Communications path, I realized that the most valuable lessons I learned were deeply intertwined with the principles David embodied. Each time I took to the podium, I felt his presence, a reminder to speak from the heart and connect with my audience. David’s impact transcended the confines of our club meetings; he was a beacon of hope and inspiration, fostering a sense of community that extended beyond Toastmasters. 

Today, I am filled with gratitude for the lessons David imparted and the legacy he leaves behind. His spirit lives on in the stories we share and the community we continue to build. As we reflect on David’s life and contributions, let us strive to embody the values he held dear – to be straightforward in our communications, hardworking in our pursuits, honorable in our actions, and kind in our interactions with one another. 

In closing, I want to express my heartfelt appreciation for David Hopper. He was not only a mentor to me and many others but also a friend who believed in each of us. As I anticipate receiving my Distinguished Toastmaster (DTM) award in July 2025, I carry forward the lessons learned from David with the hope of inspiring others in the same way he inspired me. 

Through this article, I aim not only to honor David’s memory but also to encourage fellow Toastmasters to reflect on their own journeys and the mentors who have shaped their experiences. Let us continue to build a community that embodies the spirit of kindness, authenticity, and support that David Hopper championed, ensuring that his legacy lives on in our hearts and actions. 

Elizabeth Rothner photo

Elizabeth I. Rothner

District 3 historian

View other blogs: https://aztoastmasters.org/blog/

More Information about achieving a DTM: https://toastmasters.org/Magazine/Magazine%20Issues/2022/Nov/Path%20to%20DTM